LifeHappy New Year with a band aid?

December 26, 2019by Jill Douka

Being whole yourself attracts an equal partner!
Don’t let your family past haunt your relatonship!
This year shall (and CAN) change it all!

The first days of 2020 are upon us and though merry and jolly, we tend to be sceptical about what does this year hold for us. Especially if we’ve spent this holiday season without someone dear to hold, one specific question pops in mind: “Why are human relationships so complicated and why each and any of our past relationships failed?”

Even if we’ve wanted to open up and spread love, chances are that we were alone this Christmas. The truth is that love doesn’t flourish when our biggest fears and family traumas get in the way. Each time our family environment failed to provide confidence, respect, protection, trust, and affection, a significant inner part of us remained incomplete and underdeveloped. Concequently, we unintentionally seek to fill in the blanks each time we welcome a new person in our lives. And when it comes to a romantic relationship, this pressure may be too much for our partner to handle. Of course, this is happening unconsciously, but we must realize that nobody can fill this gap apart from ourselves.

To attract our perfect match, the first step is to work on our self-adequacy. We have to stand up on our own two feet and behave like adults. We can’t expect other people to treat us well if we don’t treat ourselves well.

May you find this strength in 2020 and heal your family wounds before they contaminate your other relationships. I am confident that you’ll get inspired by the infinite hope the new year brings to believe in yourself by taking chances and proving that you can move forward! This May Tony Robbin’s upcoming Unleash the Power Within show in Birmingham may be the opportunity you were looking for to be more than just a psychological captive of the past! Join our fellowship here https://www.jillandnikolas.com/tony.html.

It’s time to stop looking for external sources of establishing your self-worth. Become self-adequate, and others will treat you exactly as you are worth it!
Get ready to finally experience the emotionally stable year you deserve!

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JILL DOUKA, MBA, PCC
www.jilldouka.com
#1 International Bestselling Author of Create Love, How to Create Your Life and Suddenly Now, Business Mentor Awarded by European Union and accredited by Coach Federation, Global Academy of Coaching Director

by Jill Douka

MBA, Μaster Certified Coach, 2x TEDx speaker #1 Bestselling and Awarded Author of 3 books, awarded mentor by the European Union, sought after internationally-renowned speaker. Founder of the Global Academy of Coaching Certificate Accredited, and together with top professors in the world trains high achievers to become exceptional coaches and leaders. Author of #1 International bestseller Create Love: 7 Secrets to Manifest your Perfect Match, Author of Bestseller How to Create Your Life, Author of Bestseller Suddenly Now, Author of Woman Now.